Sad So Long

In ‘Leaves of Grass” Walt Whitman writes,

An unknown sphere, more real than I dream’d, more direct, darts awakening rays about me—So long!
Remember my words—I may again return,
I love you—I depart from materials;
I am as one disembodied, triumphant, dead.

This week marked the sad parting with my oldest dearest garden mentor who left this world on Monday at the age of 86.  We recently sat in her garden

and while neither she nor her garden were in top form, there were hopes that she would see the Summer to its finish.  She came to America with the great British traditions of gardening and taught all who came to her path.  That included volunteers at public gardens such as Lee Gardens and the Waveny Walled Garden, both now listed in the Garden Conservancy Open Days Directory.

Waveny Walled Garden

I was honored to work with her on a major restoration of Waveny Walled Garden several years ago, and it was a grand learning experience.


The meaning of so long, is a farewell with a hint of meeting again.  Though she is, as Whitman alludes, disembodied, I know I shall meet her again in each garden I work and walk.  Just this morning as I worked in Waveny Walled garden, I met her;  a young robin sat quietly on the stone wall for several moments, we stared, neither moving, awakening rays darting around us!

Waveny Walled Garden Tea House


About Jayne in Georgia

Wife, mother, and owner of pets much loved. Gardener of three decades, amateur photographer, ardent about art, antiques and books.
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3 Responses to Sad So Long

  1. Ivy Clad says:

    What’s beautiful tribute to your friend.



  2. jody says:

    really so moving …


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